(Don't Feed the Vagabonds)

Bother me.   Vanessa. 21. Theatre Artist. Vegan. Feminist. Ever-Evolving. Always confused. My Face | Tunes I Like | Writings

I DON’T WANNA LEAVE STAUNTON.

I DON’T WANNA LEAVE STAUNTON.

— 1 day ago with 3 notes
#whine 

partytilfajr:

The most powerful oppressor is not the one who can kill, but the one who can convince the world that the oppressed deserves their oppression.

(via princess-axolotl)

— 3 days ago with 3042 notes
I did a thing yesterday. The culminating project of my college career. 
So over it.

I did a thing yesterday. The culminating project of my college career.

So over it.

— 6 days ago

Richmond was so kind to me.

What a cool city.

— 3 weeks ago with 2 notes
#weekend fun 
Consent on Stage: A quick thought

Today in rehearsal, I asked my stage partner if she consented to me touching her and kissing her. She seemed kind of taken aback. My director asked if that was “a new theatre thing”, and I said “No, it’s just important to ask.”

I dunno. It is important to ask. On stage, off stage. I thought it lessened all our lingering hesitations too (stage kisses can be weird sometimes). Actors don’t ask for consent enough and I don’t know why. I’ve totally witnessed someone getting kissed on stage and they were extremely uncomfortable with it because they were caught off guard. It’s painful to watch.

As an actor, it’s part of my job to sometimes kiss people on stage. How do I navigate between a job and my own levels of comfort? I was in a show last year where I felt uncomfortable around most of the men on stage (they’ve been touchy and rude in the past), and no one asked for my consent to hold me or kiss my cheek. I was really tense the whole time. But I didn’t feel comfortable saying “no” because my director said we had to, and again, it’s my job.

Q: How can performers promote consent culture in the rehearsal space? How can we make the rehearsal space safer? What rights do actors have over their own body in a performance?

*I feel like the answer is obvious, but I’m not so sure.

— 1 month ago with 23 notes
#theatre  #acting  #consent culture  #questions 
qcknd:

Bitter sweet goodbye breakfast with my amazing roommate of the last two years. Thank you for everything you’ve ever shown me, and I wish you the best of luck with all of your farming endeavors. My life would not be where it is now without you :) love you always.

Aww.
A shout-out to the most lovely human I’ve ever known. I’m going to miss her, but now I have an excuse to write her letters again, knit her things, and take trips to a farm. She is a powerhouse of a woman, and gee, what a friend. <3

qcknd:

Bitter sweet goodbye breakfast with my amazing roommate of the last two years. Thank you for everything you’ve ever shown me, and I wish you the best of luck with all of your farming endeavors. My life would not be where it is now without you :) love you always.

Aww.

A shout-out to the most lovely human I’ve ever known. I’m going to miss her, but now I have an excuse to write her letters again, knit her things, and take trips to a farm. She is a powerhouse of a woman, and gee, what a friend. <3

— 1 month ago with 8 notes